Chuck Wendig appears to have disabled “official” reblogging, so I’ll do it unofficially with an excerpt and a link:

I understand that as a man your initial response to women talking about misogyny, sexism, rape culture and sexual violence is to wave your hands in the air like a drowning man and cry, “Not all men! Not all men!” as if to signal yourself as someone who is not an entitled, presumptive fuck-whistle, but please believe me that interjecting yourself in that way confirms that you are. Because forcing yourself into safe spaces and unwelcome conversations makes you exactly that.

Thing is, it is all men.  We’ve all pulled some bullshit of some variety or another at some point in our lives, and we’re all enmeshed in the sickness of our society.  No fucker is innocent, and I include myself in that.  It’s all of us.  And it needs to fucking stop.